top of page

You Do You, Boo: The Journey to Uncovering and Being Your True Self

Updated: May 8

In a world where the constant chase for validation and acceptance can lead us astray, it's crucial to remember one simple yet profound truth: being authentically ourselves is the most valuable mission we can undertake. Often, the root of many of our sufferings – be it stress, anxiety, or a lack of happiness – can be traced back to a single source: the attempt to be someone we are not.

The Illusion of Not Being Good Enough

One of the most common feelings that pushes us towards this false identity is the belief that we are not good enough. This notion doesn't arise from our true selves; it stems from comparing ourselves to others and striving to meet external standards. But here's a liberating truth: by simply being who we are, we are already good enough. The concept of inadequacy only arises when we divert from our authentic self to fit into someone else's mold.

The Journey of Self-Discovery

Our primary mission, alongside basic survival and caring for others, should be to embark on a journey of self-discovery. This is not an overnight process; it's a gradual unfolding that requires time, patience, and introspection. As we dive deeper into understanding who we are, we must also be prepared to face and work through various emotional barriers. These can include past traumas and sufferings that have skewed our perception of ourselves.

Processing and Overcoming Barriers

As we process these experiences, which we must do, our true nature starts to emerge more clearly. It's like peeling off layers of an onion – each layer representing misconceptions, fears, and imposed beliefs. The closer we get to the core, the closer we are to understanding our true selves.

Embracing and Living Our True Self

The moment of realization, when we finally see ourselves for who we truly are, is transformative. Our mission then shifts to fully embodying this authentic self. It's not just about knowing who we are, but also about living out that truth in our daily lives. This commitment to authenticity is what aligns our actions with our inner self.

The Reward: Alignment, Joy, and Happiness

This alignment brings with it an unparalleled sense of joy and happiness. When we stop trying to be someone else and start being our true selves, we find that many of the stresses and anxieties we faced were merely symptoms of living out of sync with our nature. Being fully ourselves is not just an act of self-acceptance but an act of rebellion against societal pressures to conform.


In conclusion, "You Do You, Boo" isn't just a catchy phrase; it's a powerful mantra for living a fulfilled life. Your journey of self-discovery is uniquely yours, and as you travel down this path, remember that the ultimate destination is a place where you are fully, unabashedly, and joyfully you. So, embark on this mission with an open heart and mind – the rewards are immeasurable.

Post image with permission from artist Jennifer Lambein (

If you enjoyed the post, please consider sharing using the sharing links below!

To share with an individual copy the URL in your browser and send as normal.

Members: to ensure blog post notices do not end up in junk folder, add SetFire to Contacts with email of



bottom of page